Today I was asked whether there was someone I wanted to show up by losing all the weight I have to lose and I really thought about it.

I really am losing the weight jkust for myself ... funny but suddenly I do not care about any and all people who have snubbed me in the past. At the start of this weightloss journey I did care.

It is like being obese made me think that they were right and I should be ashamed so I seethed about things and resented these folks at the same time becoming a self-loathing people-pleaser. Losing the fat has let me out of prison. Those folks are no one to me anymore, lol!!!!

So, I will not snub them or make them feel as low as they made me feel ... because I am soooooooo much better than that ... and all of you are too!!!!

I say, Dazzle them with your grace!!!!!